Sunday, March 8, 2009

Valued Relationship -- Friendship


"Friendship - One of the most beautiful relationships existing! "

You get a choice to choose friends and each friend in most cases is a GEM to be treasured. At different stages in our lives we meet and make different friends and sometimes these friendships last a lifetime, creating a bond never to be broken... A good friendship is food for the soul..Friendship is love that keeps us secure in its warmth and this is priceless as it really does make you who you are. Friends are the family we choose and in that sense are really precious.
They say changes are only constant -- So do friendships change with time or do some friendships last through thick and thin?

Sometimes friends do drift apart and there could be many reasons : distance, issues, time, job, romantic lives...and some more...Some friendships do not have a special bond to break or weaken,when all the above cited changes happen in life.
As I see it, there are some people we are linked with in an inexplicable way.. An invisible bond that you know is there..With these people one does not need to correspond on a daily basis for the feelings to last. You meet them after years too..The feelings are there..Intact, no discomfort, no awkwardness. Just pure love. That is what I would say is pure n true friendship. A precious relationship to be treasured. It is something that is earned and cannot be treated frivolously and taken for granted. It needs to be nurtured and cared...
I have some wonderful friends I treasure.. Ones whom I laugh with, Ones I cry with, Ones who chase away my blues and with whom I have such strong emotional bonding that I know come what may they are and will be a part of my life!! I just cannot sometimes put my finger on what keeps this invisible bond in place but I always count myself lucky to be blessed with such friends...School to college and Work..When I see them I realise how lucky I am to be blessed with so many wonderful people(Angels of my life!).
The joy of a true friendship is one that lasts forever..So make friends with care and never let go of the ones you cherish.. "True friends are the most precious gems one finds in life!!"