They say : "In any healthy
relationship...Sooner or Later, Often or Rarely the soul inside you
craves to be a lone wolf" I don't believe in it, But thanks to my BH and
his work assignments that I do get to be a lone wolf quite often :(
I celebrated my time alone by doing the following :D
- I played music to its maximum volume ;)
- Watched a SRK movie which BH would NOT(rather NEVER) have allowed me to watch :P
- Go hubby time and come hobby time - I read books :)
- Cleaned every nook and corner. Made our room dust free ;)
- Watched a horror movie! Well...That night I heard weird sounds which made me check every room and every closet to make sure no-one was lurking around. I slept with a thunderous heartbeat!
Just a couple of days and I was bored to death..
- Watched a SRK movie which BH would NOT(rather NEVER) have allowed me to watch :P
- Go hubby time and come hobby time - I read books :)
- Cleaned every nook and corner. Made our room dust free ;)
- Watched a horror movie! Well...That night I heard weird sounds which made me check every room and every closet to make sure no-one was lurking around. I slept with a thunderous heartbeat!
Just a couple of days and I was bored to death..
- There were no clothes to pick up from the chair/table/bed :P
- There were no wet towels to dry :P
- No fights for the "Remote" :P
- Nobody to peep into what I was reading ;)
I guess all these im-perfections made my life worth living..That's when I realized "Being imperfect is just Perfect" :)
It
is quite common in a relationship for anyone to give up a part of
themselves to make a life together. As I have understood "giving space"
and "leaving alone" are two different things. Giving space is "Being
alone-together" and leaving alone is the absolute "alone". There maybe
people who think differently. So, whenever you need time for yourself :
COMMUNICATE UNWIND NURTURE :)